But I'm Not Really Hungry

Where do they find morons like this? Forget fining him. Or jail. Put the damned thing on his whosawhatsits, set it to ten and let 'er rip.

According to the Journal Sentinel, Jackson Police Chief Jed Dolnick said the girl's 29-year-old mother threatened to wake up her stepfather if the girl didn't finish her breakfast more quickly.

The mother then followed through with the threat, woke up her husband, who then attached the collar to the girl, administered the shock and threatened to put the collar on her every morning "so that she gets done faster," the criminal complaint said.

Dolnick says at first, the stepfather denied any use of the dog collar, then later admitted he placed it on her "to calm her down."

Comments

[mmy]

That's it, give the old boy a taste of his own medicine!! He's such a moron thought, he might not get the correlation. Mom might need a bit of juice too.

[toothfairy]

Did you know that most child abuse or child murder is from mommy's boyfriend or mommy's new husband?
whosawhatsits is a new term for me but I think it's a great idea!
We could always bring Lorena Bobbit in too.

[Cindi in PA]

Did you know that most child abuse or child murder is from mommy's boyfriend or mommy's new husband?
whosawhatsits is a new term for me but I think it's a great idea!
We could always bring Lorena Bobbit in too.

Posted by: toothfairy | Oct 15, 2005 6:21:39 PM

I just don't get the whole boyfriend, step-father thing. I do know working in family law, many women step from the frying pan to the fire after a divorce. But come on, if you put your new flame above that of your children. You don't deserve to be called mom!

Send the clown's here, I will show them what a collar is for.

[angela]

What about the mother? She should be in jail also. She is just as guilty.

[Sly2SmoothieNJs]

I am a surviver of severe child abuse. And when I read things like this it makes me beyond angry. I feel these people should have that collar put on them for a bit crank that sucker 6+ and let them cry like a baby. Why would that mother even threaten the child like that? I can't believe she wasn't charged as well.
I also feel, that sex offenders should be castrated and required by law shovel manure as a job for the rest of their lives. Death is too easy. I find paybacks more enduring.
I could go on for hours, but I will spare you, I think you get my point here.
Sick, twisted evil, people/.
Ya know at my blog I posted an idea: when a woman finds out she is pregnant, her and the sperm "doner" will be subjected to a series of psycological testing throughout the pregnancy term. If they are acceptable then great they have a new baby, if not, the baby is put up for adotion....my idea, lowers the risk of child abuse.
S2S

[Cindi in PA]

Ya know at my blog I posted an idea: when a woman finds out she is pregnant, her and the sperm "doner" will be subjected to a series of psycological testing throughout the pregnancy term. If they are acceptable then great they have a new baby, if not, the baby is put up for adotion....my idea, lowers the risk of child abuse.
S2S

Posted by: Sly2SmoothieNJs | Oct 15, 2005 6:39:39 PM

Testing my ass. How about women being more aware of who they are willing to screw?

My x AND I may have screwed up our relationship, but we sure as hell did not screw up our kids.

[gramma]

The mother is as guilty as her husband/partner, whatever he is. I know she may also be abused, but to be threatening the child(ren) with the husband when he is asleep, knowing what he will do, is beyond abuse,

[scubajap]

Dan,
In a case like this, I really think the word "morons" is too mild a term to describe them. The abuse of a child by the parents, the people that are obligated to protect them and provide a safe haven from the world is the ulitmate undermining of the everything the child needs to develop into a healthy person.
This kind of abuse goes beyond criminal, in that the emotional scars and lack of trust it will create in this child will last and effect her throughout her life.
Children can be a trial at times, but there is never an excuse for such an act. I should only hope the punishment will befit the crime.

[Sly2SmoothieNJs]

Cindi in PA: what are you saying that men are the only ones that commit child abuse crimes? Guess what miss, my mother was the main abuser in my family, and she ruled the roost too! My step-father acted like a frickin' robot and was at her beck and call, he would also tattle-tale on me like a child, just to watch my mom get furious and beat on me.

It doens't always have to be a guy, there are some sick bee-otches out there too.
S2S

[TheAlamo]

The mother should get the same charges. Why is she able to walk? The punishment should fit the crime, so, they should hook the collar around the step-"dad?'s" testicles and give him a few jolts--daily. What a sick group of people.

[angela]

Sly, you are soooo right. It goes both ways. Many children are abused by mothers. I could not imagine ever hurting my child.

I believe having children is a privledge, not a right. If you abuse them, you lose them.

[CareBear]

Ya know at my blog I posted an idea: when a woman finds out she is pregnant, her and the sperm "doner" will be subjected to a series of psycological testing throughout the pregnancy term. If they are acceptable then great they have a new baby, if not, the baby is put up for adotion....my idea, lowers the risk of child abuse.

What? You are crazy! I see your point in checking out the parents, but why kill the child. Make her give birth and give the child to a family that can take care of it? Doesn't that make more sense?

[CareBear]

My x and I also had a bad relationship, but that didn't bleed over to our childern. We are great with them. It's not a perfect family, but we are all happy.

[CareBear]

Angela...

You can't have said it better!

[mark]

Another survivor of extreme abuse here.Even more guilt on top of the abuse after my brother and myself let my mother die alone from a terminal condition.We could not make ourselves go to look at her.Could not forgive her.We took no joy in seeing her die alone;we just went thru so much we could not go any further than we already had surviving what she had done to us.

There is a hell of a lot of abuse in this country that is called 'punishment'.(According to the dept of Justice;Janet Reno 1990; 66% is commited by women.That is the amount that is "reported").In the end the humiliation and pain is so akin to rape you produce a man who either is a domestic abuser himself;or in the worst case a outright rapist.

People who get off tormenting their children get theirs in the end.I have to believe that or I could not continue.
>>>If you cannot inflict enough pain on a child with your bare hand to satisfy yourself;there is a special little place in hell for you with like minded spirits>>>

[MarlboroGal]

Yes, there are some real sickos in the world, and I've seen some "punishment" results firsthand. Here's an example I saw in the ER one night while working.

One night a couple came to the ER with their 4 young children in tow. Two of them were 5 month old female, twin babies. One of the little twins wouldn't quit crying, and the parents brought the baby in to have her checked out. The ER physician x-rayed the baby, and the xray showed a fracture of the right arm, a corkscrew fracture. The sorry SOB father had twisted the baby's arm sooooooooo hard that the arm fractured. You can bet your sweet @$$ we called the authorities immediately!!! I hope there's a special place in hell for child abusers.

[Sly2SmoothieNJs]

Mark: I can totally relate, almost perfectly.
email me if you want, I would love to here more. I am still in recovery, I am fine of coure, but, at 32 I stills spontaneously remember stuff, I had repressed it for so long it is just surfacing. It makes me sick, but, I am strong and I have broken that chain, I raise my son completely different. He will look back and have memories of a wonderful childhood. Me, I only remember horror stories, and from ages 5-12, I don't remember anything, it is strange. But, I am a true surviver, and that woman and my step-dad, are history, they didn't get the best of me, that's for sure!
Thanks for reading and sharing,
S2S