Why People Don’t Like Mitt Romney?

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July 28, 2012

I Tweeted an item by Nick Chiles at the Atlanta Black Star that was probably making the rounds. I had to read the cached copy. While not agreeing with the precise conclusion, I think there's something there if the interview went down as Chiles claims. Political junkies may not care as much about personality, especially if we're motivated by principles and policies, but your average voter wants to feel a connection to a politician.

This is Obama's ace in the hole in his contest with Romney. Most know it, many have said, or written it -it's why the time or two Romney has given a strong speech, or appearance when you felt him connecting with voters it seemed like a big deal.

I don't think Romney's a liar. I think he comes across to the public as remote, aloof, detached, however you want to describe it. He could swim around all day in every Reagan policy that existed and he still wouldn't be Reagan – the epitome of a politician who knew how to connect with people, likely due in part to Reagan's previous career, as well as his personality.

If Romney could learn to connect with people consistently, he'd probably be in like flint when it comes to the Oval Office. But I doubt he can, or ever will. This one is going to have to be won on the merits. And, damn, that's hard in politics with so many Americans so casual about their voting choices. Too many intuitively just vote for the guy they "like," feel they "know," or just "feel good" about. It isn't new, or distinctly American. It's just politics and that's the arena we have to win in, such as it is.

Rather than talking about the family being proud or excited about this special moment, the Republican presidential challenger instead threw his wife Ann under the bus and pretended he barely knew anything about her horse—whose name is Rafalca, by the way—and its big Olympic moment.

“I have to tell you, this is Ann’s sport,” he said, preferring to not even say the word “dressage”—which is a French word meaning “training” and sometimes described as horse ballet.

“I’m not even sure which day the sport goes on,” Romney said. “She will get the chance to see it; I will not be watching the event. I hope her horse does well.”

So let me get this straight—your family has invested probably millions in dancing horses, supposedly as a way to help Ann treat her multiple sclerosis, “her horse” is going to compete in the globe’s most prestigious event, and we’re supposed to believe you don’t know anything about it? The subject never came up at the family dinner table or in the marital bedroom? Really, Mitt?

 

Comments:
  1. EBL says:

    This has annoyed me about Romney for years. He is such a methodical politician who has to calculate every saying. I get why he has become so cautious given how he was jumped on over dogs on roofs and London not being ready, but Reagan would speak from the heart and then mock his opponents when they did this to him. Romney could do that (we saw a glimpse of it with Brian Williams and the Veep question) but sadly there is not more of that.
    The weird part is Romney’s friends say the guy is very personable and funny in real life. So what givens with the public Romney?

  2. Jeff says:

    So some hack tries to catch Romney spouting off on dressage (to make him look aloof) and so he refuses to oblige with the obvious setup. And so the writer tags him as aloof anyhow.
    What a joke!

  3. NC Mountain Girl says:

    It’s understandable. First, when Romney was a young man he watched his father’s political career derailed by too many off the cuff comments. Second, Romney spent his adult life as a practicing Mormon in very secular Boston. Stranger in a strange land learn to mask their true selves with an inoffensive smile.
    We may have seen the real Mitt Romney in the zinger he landed on Brian Williams. Spontaneous, funny and true!

  4. mg says:

    We don’t need to like mittens, we need to vote mittens. If he runs this country the way he ran Bain, I could go back to making money.

  5. JeffC says:

    apparently all of Dan’s “friends” are outgoing life of the party types … he doesn’t understand how anyone can like someone who is reserved and competent … I’ve been around gregarious life of the party types my entire life … none of them are among my friends for good reason …